A Structured Way to Reconnect
Recurring arguments, defensiveness, and emotional distance can leave you both feeling stuck—even when you care deeply about each other. Together, we slow things down so each partner can feel heard, understand your patterns, and practice skills for reconnecting with care and intention.
Ian’s Approach
Ian offers a calm, person-centered space for couples to explore their relationship. His Gottman-informed approach is practical and collaborative, focusing on your patterns, your goals, and steps that feel manageable for both partners.
What We Work On
Strengthen Friendship
Build understanding, appreciation, and everyday moments of connection.
Manage Conflict
Practice clearer communication, listening, and repair when disagreements arise.
Create Shared Meaning
Explore the values, rituals, and goals that shape your life together.
Take the First Step Together
In-person counseling in Paramus, New Jersey and telehealth where legally permitted.